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Glossary

Autism terms,
plainly defined.

The terminology used across the autism community + autism research. Includes both the language autistic adults prefer and the clinical terms you'll encounter in IEPs and insurance documents.

Actually Autistic
A hashtag and identity claim by autistic adults — distinguishing self-advocates from parent-led, professional, or organization-led voices about autism. Originated on Twitter/X around 2010.
Allistic
Not autistic. Often preferred over 'neurotypical' when contrasting specifically with autistic people.
ABA
Applied Behavior Analysis. A therapy approach using positive reinforcement (and historically punishment, including electric shock) to shape behavior. Heavily contested by the autistic-adult community.
ABLE Account
A 529A tax-advantaged savings account for people with disabilities. Up to $17K/year can be saved without affecting SSI/Medicaid eligibility.
ASD
Autism Spectrum Disorder. The clinical diagnostic term. Many autistic adults prefer 'autistic' to 'ASD'.
DIR/Floortime
Developmental, Individual-difference, Relationship-based — a neurodiversity-affirming therapy approach focused on emotional connection and child-led play. Alternative to ABA.
Echolalia
Repeating words or phrases heard from others — sometimes immediately, sometimes much later (delayed echolalia). Often a form of communication, not meaningless repetition.
IEP
Individualized Education Program. The legally binding document under IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act) that defines special-education services for a student.
IEE
Independent Educational Evaluation. A second-opinion evaluation parents can request at school-district expense when they disagree with the school's evaluation.
Identity-first language
'Autistic person' (not 'person with autism'). Preferred by the autistic-adult community as identity-affirming. Most autism organizations now use it; some clinical contexts still default to person-first.
Masking
The conscious or unconscious suppression of autistic traits to appear neurotypical. Causes burnout, anxiety, depression. Many autistic adults learn to unmask in adulthood.
Monotropism
Theory that autistic attention focuses intensely on a small number of interests at any given time, rather than being spread across many. Coined by Murray, Lesser, and Lawson 2005.
Neurodiversity
Term coined by Judy Singer (1998) describing neurological variation (autism, ADHD, etc.) as natural human diversity rather than pathology.
Neurotypical
Brain wiring that fits the dominant cultural norm. Used to contrast with neurodivergent.
PDA
Pathological (or Persistent) Demand Avoidance. A subtype of autism characterized by extreme avoidance of everyday demands due to anxiety. Recognized in UK clinical practice.
Person-first language
'Person with autism.' Preferred in some clinical contexts and by some families. Most autistic adults prefer identity-first.
RDI
Relationship Development Intervention. A parent-led, relationship-based therapy. Neurodiversity-affirming alternative to ABA.
Stimming
Self-stimulatory behavior — hand-flapping, rocking, vocalizations, fidgeting — autistic people use for sensory regulation, joy expression, focus. Suppressing stimming causes harm.
Spoons
Metaphor for limited daily energy. 'Spoon theory' from Christine Miserandino (2003) — autistic people often track their day in spoons because energy depletes faster than for neurotypicals.
Special interests
Deep, focused passions that autistic people develop. Often source of joy, expertise, and identity. Some clinical contexts pathologize these; the autistic community celebrates them.
504 Plan
Civil-rights accommodation plan under Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act. Less robust than an IEP but easier to obtain. For students who need accommodations but not specialized instruction.